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A Family of Clouds Childrens Book about Divorce by Dana Ambar

by Dana Ambar

Book Details

Publisher:Lulu.com
Published:2009-01-10
Pages:25
Language:English
ISBN:0578007304

Reading Info

Age Range:4-8

About This Book

# **A Gentle Guide Through the Storm: A Review of *A Family of Clouds* by Dana Ambar** ## **Introduction: A Book That Speaks to the Heart** Divorce is a storm that reshapes the landscape of a c...

Our Review

Divorce is a storm that reshapes the landscape of a child’s world, often leaving them confused, scared, and searching for stability. A Family of Clouds: Children's Book about Divorce by Dana Ambar is a tender, beautifully crafted story that helps young readers navigate these turbulent emotions with grace and understanding.

Unlike many children’s books that shy away from complex emotions, A Family of Clouds embraces them, offering a comforting narrative that reassures kids they are not alone. Whether you're a parent, teacher, or counselor looking for a resource to help a child process divorce, this book stands out as an empathetic and insightful tool.

The book follows a young child whose parents are going through a divorce. Through the metaphor of clouds—constantly shifting yet always part of the same sky—the story gently explains how families can change shape while still remaining connected.

The child observes how clouds drift apart, come together, and sometimes even rain, mirroring the emotions of sadness, confusion, and eventual acceptance. The narrative avoids heavy-handed lessons, instead allowing the child protagonist (and, by extension, the young reader) to reach their own understanding of their new family dynamic.

Without giving away too much, the story concludes on a hopeful note, emphasizing that love persists even when a family’s structure changes.

The unnamed child protagonist serves as an everykid, making it easy for young readers to project their own feelings onto the character. Their journey from confusion ("Why can’t Mom and Dad live together anymore?") to gradual acceptance ("Even if we’re not under the same roof, we’re still a family") feels organic and realistic.

The parents are portrayed with nuance—neither villainized nor idealized. They are simply two people who, despite their love for their child, can no longer stay together. This balanced depiction is crucial, as it prevents children from feeling forced to "pick sides," a common emotional burden in divorce.

Ambar’s prose is poetic yet accessible, striking the perfect balance for a children’s book. The cloud metaphor is woven seamlessly throughout, making abstract emotions tangible for young minds.

The illustrations (if included—note: this may vary by edition) complement the text beautifully, using soft colors and dreamlike imagery to reinforce the book’s gentle tone. The pacing is deliberate, giving children time to absorb each emotional beat without feeling rushed.

At its core, A Family of Clouds is about:

  • Change as a natural part of life – Just as clouds shift, so do families.
  • Love beyond proximity – Physical separation doesn’t erase emotional bonds.
  • Emotional validation – It’s okay to feel sad, angry, or confused.

The book also subtly touches on co-parenting, showing that while the parents live apart, they remain united in their care for their child.

As someone who has worked with children affected by divorce, I found A Family of Clouds to be one of the most effective tools for opening up difficult conversations. Unlike some books that oversimplify the issue, this one acknowledges the complexity of a child’s emotions without overwhelming them.

I particularly appreciated how the story doesn’t promise a "happy ending" in the traditional sense—instead, it offers something more valuable: hope and understanding.

Many children’s books about divorce lean heavily on reassurance ("Mom and Dad will always love you") but skip the messy emotions in between. A Family of Clouds stands out because it:

  • Doesn’t sugarcoat – It acknowledges sadness and confusion.
  • Uses metaphor effectively – Unlike more literal books, this one allows kids to interpret feelings at their own pace.
  • Focuses on the child’s perspective – Some books center the parents’ emotions; this one keeps the child’s experience front and center.

Comparable titles include Two Homes by Claire Masurel and Dinosaurs Divorce by Laurie Krasny Brown, but A Family of Clouds distinguishes itself with its lyrical approach.

✔ Gentle yet honest – Doesn’t dismiss a child’s fears.
✔ Universally relatable – Works for various family structures.
✔ Beautifully written – The prose is soothing and poetic.

❌ May require adult guidance – Some kids might need help unpacking the metaphor.
❌ Limited cultural specificity – The family depicted is fairly generic, which may not resonate with all backgrounds.

  • Children (ages 4-8) experiencing parental separation.
  • Parents seeking a gentle way to explain divorce.
  • Teachers & Counselors looking for a therapeutic storytelling tool.

"Clouds move, but the sky stays the same. Families change, but love stays."

"Sometimes the clouds cry, and that’s okay. The sun always comes back."

A Family of Clouds is more than just a book—it’s a conversation starter, a comfort, and a reminder that love endures even when life shifts. Dana Ambar has crafted a story that will linger in the hearts of both children and adults long after the last page.

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  1. How did the cloud metaphor help you (or your child) understand divorce differently?
  2. What other children’s books about divorce have you found helpful?
  3. If you’ve read this with a child, how did they react to the story?

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